原文地址：[说说“上瘾”]——天堂来信＃5778作者： 天堂竖琴
Addictions
[说说“上瘾”]——天堂来信＃5778
God said:
天父说：
Every adult is responsible for
himself or herself. Someone who is addicted says that he can't help
it. Addiction is a great excuse for not taking
responsibility.
每个成年人都该为自己负责。有些人说上瘾是不得已。实际它只是不负责任的一个借口。
Don't get addicted. If someone
wants to fall into a quagmire, he will find a way. If someone wants
to be excused from self-responsibility, he can excuse himself
directly.
什么事不要成瘾。如果有人想体验困境，他自会找到一种方式。如果有人想要自己的不负责任得到谅解，那他可以直接原谅自己。
There is also no one who is not
capable of receiving help and leaving the practice of addiction
behind. Everyone is capable of it. Don't blame the addiction.
Helplessness, as considered in this venue of addiction, is not
true. It is a fall-back excusal from responsibility.
每个人都具备接受帮助和戒掉上瘾的能力。人人能做到。不要归咎到上瘾上。就上瘾而言，所谓的无助并非实情。那只是推脱责任的借口。
If there is a way to addiction,
there is a way to get out of it as well. Choose.
你能上瘾，就同样能戒掉它。只是选择而已。
It could be said that addiction
is the lazy man's way.
上瘾是懒人的方式，可以这么说。
Of course, there are those who
are forced into addiction to the advantage of a third party.
Nevertheless, it is the responsibility of the person who is
addicted to get off the addiction. When you need help, ask for it.
Yet it is yourself you ultimately have to depend on. Getting off an
addiction is something you choose. You do have say.
当然，不排除有些人是被他人利用被迫上瘾的。不管怎么说，要摆脱它都是上瘾的人自己的责任。当需要帮助，就发出请求。而最终能依靠的人只有自己。首先你要做出戒瘾的选择，这点取决于你。
Is it easy to stop being a
patsy to any addiction? No.
从成瘾的无力中摆脱，是件容易的事吗？不
Necessary? Yes.
有必要吗？有
Impossible? No.
不可能吗？不是的。
Possible? Yes. That you have
responsibility equates to opportunity.
有可能？是的。你的责任感等于就是机会。
Look, if you fall out of bed,
you climb back in.
如果从床上掉下来，你会自己爬回去。
If anyone has gotten away from
an addiction, so can you. So must you.
如果有人已摆脱了瘾症，那你也能做到。你必须做到。
Find reverence for
life.
去找回生命的尊严。
Restore yourself to
responsibility. No one can do it for you. This is an occasion that
the addicted one rises to.
重拾对自己的责任。这点没人可以替代你。这是上瘾的人需要做到的。
You are no longer a baby. No
one has to prove anything to you. No one can. It is for you to
prove your mettle to yourself.
你不再是婴儿。没人要为你证明什么，也没人做的到。你的勇气只有你自己去呈现。
Remember Me.
记起我。
Remember love.
忆起爱。
Remember courage.
重拾你的勇气。
Remember taking hold of your
life rather than allowing an addiction to take hold of you. Don't
fool around with addictions. You may think you are smarter than
everyone else, yet you are making a choice. No one is the fairest
of all. Be sure to look out for yourself.
去驾驭你的生活，而不是让瘾症驾驭你。不要再沉溺其间被它愚弄。你可能觉得比所有人都聪明，然而还是要做出选择。没有什么最公平。你要找回的是你自己。
There are many kinds of
addiction besides physical addictions.
除了实物上瘾之外，还有其它形形色色的上瘾。
There are addictions to anger.
There are addictions to what is called love. It is not an addiction
to love, of course. It is an addiction to dependency on another.
There are addictions to pulling the wool over your own eyes. There
are addictions to pretense. There are addictions to not seeing what
is right in front of you. There are addictions to hopelessness and
to helplessness.
有人沉溺于愤怒。有人沉溺于“所谓的爱”，那当然不是爱，而是对他人的一种依赖。有人摆脱不了坑蒙拐骗，有人离不开伪装。有人就是看不到正面的事情。还有人于无望无助中不能自拔。
Get your will back. People can
help you. No one can do it for you.
找回你的意志，别人只能给予协助，但没人能替你去做。
Don't be sly. Be
truthful.
别再狡辩了，要真实。
Addiction to food has an added
layer of difficulty because you do have to eat.
对食物的上瘾要难上加难，因为你需要饮食。
Beloveds, addicted or not, you
are responsible. Lead the way. No more excuses. Oh, yes, there is
an addiction to excuses. This is the biggest addiction of all.
Excuses put responsibility everywhere except on you.
但亲爱的，无论怎样，你都要负起责任。走出一条道路，不要再找借口。是的，借口也会使人上瘾。这是最让人无法自拔的。除了自己，各种借口会到处推卸责任。
There is no excuse for making
excuses. This does not mean you are to blame yourself any more than
you are to blame anyone else. Indeed, others may contribute, yet
the buck ends here with you.
不要为制造借口再寻找借口。这不是说相对于别人，你要更多的责备自己。别人可能确实有份，但责任在你。
You are capable. That's it. You
are capable of breaking out of the jail you make for yourself. You
are capable of excelling. You are capable of moving forward. It is
built-in that you are capable of great things. Then why don't you
do great things?
你有能力做到。是的。你有能力打破你为自己设定的囚牢。你能够做到卓越不凡，勇往向前。你生来是要做大事的。那为什么不去做呢？
What excuse do you make? What
excuses do you make?
还编什么借口？还要编多少借口？
There isn't any specific thing
you must do in life, you understand. You don't have to be a
millionaire any more than you have to be a racketeer.
要明白，生活中没有什么特定的事是你要做的。一个百万富翁不比一个诈骗犯来的更重要。
Live your life as best as you
can. What you are capable of is unlimited. There are no one-way
streets for you. There are no dead-ends for you. It is onward and
upward for you. Swim.
尽你所能过好自己的生活。你们的能力是无限的。生活不是单行道，生活也不是死胡同。它应步步高升。尽情畅游吧。
原文：http://heavenletters.org/ego-shows-up-in-many-forms.html
传导：Gloria Wendroff
发布于2016年09月19日
翻译：天堂竖琴
http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/1554109041
